The words sound familiar aint they! Yes they are the planets around which one person or the other have circled once. Not sparing myself either. But yet a wonderful and a disastrous experience. Yes it could be the way you want it to be. I believe in that way. 

Over the past few months and years, I’ve seen a lot of affairs, relationships, break-offs, not with me, in friends and other people.hehe. But still people never learn from their mistakes and repeat them over and over again. To err, is human I guess.

Just a couple weeks back I was having dinner with an uncle from India and a South-African family (Indians born and bought up there). Now I was the youngest amongst all not to mention, but I was carefully doing what I do best. I was listening and trying to think. Because I did not have much to speak. Uncle came up with this interesting topic of Love and infatuation. I really was impressed with his views, probably thats why old people say,”We dint color our hair grey in the sun!”.

Crush/Infatuation: It is generally one-sided. This is when you try to be at your best in front of him/her. You cant get them out of your mind, feel like talking or staying in touch with them everytime. Anything and everything they do appears correct to you and you appreciate it. You’d go a step extra for them, which you wouldn’t do in your worst situation also. Whatever impresses them, becomes your habit. The only weakness in this period is that both parties are “artificial”. They are not the “real” them. They present to each other as the best, whilst they are not so in reality. I mean noone is perfect, but imposing is not the solution. And by the way these are entirely my opinions so they have to differ from the reader (you,here).

 Love: I really don’t know much about. Even if I know a bit, I wont comment on it. I would rather request you to leave  a comment on what you define it in your own mind and context. Based on your comments even I may build up some inference and move on.